As someone who’s been married for 14 years because I am extremely old, my first impression was to just think “gosh, that’s sad,” and ponder how you can make it past a quarter century and then say “we’re done.” Then, I read a world-shattering thread on the horrors of modern dating and feel worse for the younger generation than ever.
Instead of just pasting the whole thing here, click through and breathe in the rich tapestry on anguish that’s painted here.
Go to couples’ therapy, a retreat, work on your communication or talk about your “love language.” Absolutely anything to avoid the hellscape painted here by @solomonmissouri.